well I took the advice of the 3 of you and played with a few of the memory choices and have been able to at least get into windows with various speeds (800*8, 475*8.5 etc etc...memory 1267, 1000(4-4-4-12) and a few others.....)I just gotta get comfortable with what I want I guess then tinker with that. My main question should have been the Ref's....Im not quite sure I follow how to set them properly.

I have read some previous posts on how to calculate them and still not sure if Im doing it correctly