for the life of me i just cannot get this stable. i get either a bluescreen or a failure of prime/occt about 5-10min in. im using Jor3lBR's template for 4.41ghz

Code:
Q9650 489 X 9 4401MHz 

Robust Graphics Booster.........................[ Auto ] 
CPU Clock Ratio.................................[ 9 ] 
Fine CPU Clock Ratio............................[ 0 ] 
CPU Frequency 4.35GHz...........................[ 489 x 9 ]

******Clock Chip Control******

CPU Host Clock Control..........................[ Enabled ] 
CPU Host Frequency (Mhz)........................[ 489 ] 
PCI Express Frequency (Mhz).....................[ 100 ] 
C.I.A 2 [Disabled] 

******Advanced Clock Control******

CPU Clock Drive.................................[ 1000mv ] 
PCI Express Clock Drive.........................[ 1000mv ] 
CPU Clock Skew..................................[ 0ps ] 
MCH Clock Skew..................................[ 50ps ] 

******DRAM Performance Control******

Performance Enhance [Standard] 
Extreme Memory Profile (XMP)....................[ Disabled ] 
(G) MCH Frequency Latch.........................[ 333MHz ] 
System Memory Multipler.........................[ 2.40 ] 
Memory Frequency 1066...........................[ 1174 ] 
DRAM Timing Selectable..........................[ Manual ] 

CAS Latency Time................................[ 5 ] 
tRCD............................................[ 5 ] 
tRP.............................................[ 5 ] 
tRAS............................................[ 15 ] 

******Advanced Timing Control******

tRRD............................................[ Auto ] 
tWTR............................................[ Auto ] 
tWR.............................................[ Auto ] 
tRFC............................................[ 52 ] 
tRTP............................................[ Auto ] 
Command Rate (cmd)..............................[ Auto ] 

******Channel A Timing Settings****** 

Static tRead Value [ 7 ] ................[ 8 ] 
tRD Phase0 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ]
tRD Phase1 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ]
tRD Phase2 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ]
tRD Phase3 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ] 

tRD 2rd (Differnt Rank) [ 8 ] ................[ Auto ]
tWR 2wr (Differnt Rank) [ 8 ] ................[ Auto ] 
tWR 2rd (Differnt Rank) [ 7 ] ................[ Auto ] 
tRD 2wr (Same/Difft Rank) [ 9 ] ................[ Auto ] 

Dimm 1 Clock Skew Control.......................[ Auto ] 
Dimm 2 Clock Skew Control.......................[ Auto ] 
DDR Write Training..............................[ Auto ] 

******Channel A Driving Settings****** 

Drive Strength Profile..........................[ OC-1333 ] 
Data Driving Pull Up Level......................[ Auto ] 
cmd Driving Pull Up Level.......................[ Auto ] 
ctrl Driving Pull Up Level......................[ Auto ]
clk Driving Pull Up Level.......................[ Auto ]

Data Driving Pull Down Level....................[ Auto ] 
cmd Driving Pull Down Level.....................[ Auto ] 
ctrl Driving Pull Down Level....................[ Auto ] 
clk Driving Pull Down Level.....................[ Auto ]

******Channel B Timing Settings****** 

Static tRead Value [ 6 ] ................[ 8 ] 
tRD Phase0 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ]
tRD Phase1 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ]
tRD Phase2 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ]
tRD Phase3 Adjustment [ 0 ] ................[ Auto ] 

tRD 2rd (Differnt Rank) [ 8 ] ................[ Auto ]
tWR 2wr (Differnt Rank) [ 8 ] ................[ Auto ] 
tWR 2rd (Differnt Rank) [ 7 ] ................[ Auto ] 
tRD 2wr (Same/Difft Rank) [ 9 ] ................[ Auto ] 

Dimm 1 Clock Skew Control.......................[ Auto ] 
Dimm 2 Clock Skew Control.......................[ Auto ] 
DDR Write Training..............................[ Auto ] 

******Channel B Driving Settings****** 

Drive Strength Profile..........................[ OC-1333 ] 
Data Driving Pull Up Level......................[ Auto ] 
cmd Driving Pull Up Level.......................[ Auto ] 
ctrl Driving Pull Up Level......................[ Auto ]
clk Driving Pull Up Level.......................[ Auto ]

Data Driving Pull Down Level....................[ Auto ] 
cmd Driving Pull Down Level.....................[ Auto ] 
ctrl Driving Pull Down Level....................[ Auto ] 
clk Driving Pull Down Level.....................[ Auto ]

******Motherboard Voltage Control******

Load-Line Calibration [Enabled] 
CPU Vcore [ 1.23750 ]...................[ 1.41250 ] 
CPU Termination [ 1.20 ]...................[ 1.40 ]
CPU PLL [ 1.50 ]...................[ 1.570 ]
CPU Reference [ 0.766 ]...................[ 0.871 OR 0.886 ] 

MCH Core [1.1 ]...................[ 1.400 ] 
MCH Reference [0.760 ]...................[ 0.926 ] 
MCH/DRAM Refernce [0.900 ]...................[ 1.150 ] 
ICH I/O [1.500 ]...................[ 1.570 ] 
ICH Core [1.100 ]...................[ 1.200 ] 

DRAM Voltage [1.800 ]...................[ 2.300 ] 
DRAM Termination [0.900 ]...................[ 1.150 ] 
Channel A Ref [0.900 ]...................[ 1.150 ] 
Channel B Ref [0.900 ]...................[ 1.150 ] 

******Advanced BIOS Features******

CPU Multithreading..............................[ Disabled ] 
Limit CPUID Max to 3............................[ Disabled ] 
No-Execute memory Protect.......................[ Disabled ] 
CPU Enhance Halt (CIE)..........................[ Disabled ] 
C2/C2E State Support............................[ Disabled ] 
C4/C4E State Support............................[ Disabled ] 
CPU Thermal Monitor.............................[ Disabled ] 
CPU EIST Function...............................[ Disabled ] 
Virtualization Technology.......................[ Disabled ]
the only things i changed are i set the ram to 1:1 (333mhz strap 2.0 multi) and DRAM voltage to 2.1. the driving strength profiles, channel a & b, should i set those to 1066? i've even gone a notch or two higher Vcore, giving me 1.392 windows and still no go. grrr.... its odd because, i boot into windows in under 30sec, just like i do now @ stable sig settings, everything seems smooth and groovy. i dont know how to tell if i need more vcore or if its the mch/cpu ref values that need tweaking.

any ideas?