I found out what was wrong with my setup. The new option called CPU Margin Enhancement I believe not by it right now at work.. Apparently it has been causing issues on the 9450 for some reason. This option is to enhance overclocking FSB wise. I guess my chip just got fedup with the setting at the point that my RMAed board stopped working. Supposebly if you set it to compatible you can land more of an overclock.. FYI for everyone here. They are going to take my specs and try to duplicate it and when they do they will send me a beta to try to resolve the issue for me..

P.S. you load the driver by extracting the files as mentioned on previous post and go to device manager and open the storage controllers part and right click on the Intel stoage controller which wil say ICH8R / ICH9R and click on the update driver software I do believe it says and the rest is pointing it towards the drivers.. The tech I spoke with knew what he was doing.