Thanks for the quick response.
I tried 333/1333 as opposed to 400/1333 and my computer will boot and operate fine up to 380FSB which is 1520mhz on the memory. But at even 390 it Blue screens during boot with the PAGE_FAULT_IN_NONPAGED_AREA, also I went to 400 just for fun and then i recieved the windows failed to start with misc. file problems during a few boot attempts.
Also I did this without even taking the multiplier to 9 so my cpu speed was only 3.2 at that point. It's looking to me that my mem just cant run at its rated speed (which soesnt really suprise me a lot) since its just overclocked DDR3-1333 in reality.