i looked at the charts and noticed MOST people need 1.45v for anything around 4ghz,
so i set mine to 1.476v and its been running 2 hours now at 4018mhz with the cores at 46c, and the cpu at 57c and no issues.
so i might bump up the clock later and try again. but right now im scared to look at the power draw. a decent OC is 200W load, the highest i pushed was 250W, this has to be more..