Hey B3nj1. I believe the problem could bw something else, looking at your BIOS pics. You have a Q6800 proc which, I'm not sure though and haven't checked yet, could have an FSB of 1066 also - please confirm. If that is the case you cannot go any further than that with your mem, that's an Intel constrain. Other board vendors go around this issue but not Intel. If this is so you can only oc your proc to get your mem faster.
The other possibility would be to force the mem freq to something else other than default or 1066, but I guess you have done that already.
Just looked at the first pic and in fact the proc is on an 1066 FSB (system bus speed). You're out of luck my friend. You can either get a new proc or underclock your current proc, if it's allowed to lower the multiplier so you can raise the FSB. With a chinese cooler I don't know. You must have an 11 multiplier, if you can set it to 9 and FSB 1333 you'll get 3GHz on your proc and mem at 1333, or maybe try higer even.
Hope that helped.