I've got a really odd problem since I flashed to 1104!

I have been running 19x 200BLCK @ 1603MHz, 6-7-6-20-1N with HT enabled on 1.32V and 1.65V on RAM for ages now.
Suddenly after the flash my system wont boot at all?

So then I try to trick with my settings, and it seems like I have to make the RAM run 7-7-7-20-1N @ 1603MHz for the system to boot?
Okay, fine.. I was going to boot BIOS01 which got the 1001 and just forget about this new crappy BIOS!

But what happens? My old BIOS setup wont boot with 1001 any more either?
What the hell is going on?

And now, whatever what I try to lock my DRAM Timing to my BIOS just recognize 2040MB of RAM?
I can set the speed to 1603MHz, but even when trying to set the timing to 7-7-7-24, or 8-8-8-24, or even 9-9-9-28 it will but, but just recognize 2GiB RAM?

What's that all about? Not being able to lock my DRAM Timing at all? Auto DRAM Timing = 6GiB RAM, Locked settings = 2GiB RAM???!