Fulgore0rb: The Dominator ram I spoke of only needs 22 tRC for EPP. all other timings are correctly set as well.

Ditch the G.Skill you wont regret it. It was made to run on Intel chipsets only. with completly diffrent timings then the on die Mem controllers are capable of.
Even if you got the G.Skill runings with a bios fix at the correct EPP Timings. its only gonna be performing to the Intel mem controller performance lvl. Almost completly defeating the advantage of the IMC's.

This is my logical deduction anyway. with 9850be@3.0ghz and the same G.skill ram you have at 800mhz my 3d score was 15704. then i changed the ram out to the Dominators and changed nothing else at all just ran the dominators at 800mhz with its correct timings 5.5.5.15-22 t2. And my 3d score went to 15815.

I then set it to 1066 with small oc to 1120 And not a single problem.