need some help:

Q6600 at 3.6ghz, 450x8 (trying 3.8ghz stalble 24/7)

maximus formula BIOS 505

4x1gb Crucial Ballistix 1066mhz, Brand new, still in sealed box )
it's one-sided memo's
hope my X38 don't kill them...................


wich timings, Vdimm, and AUTO things should I do?
just need some @1100-1150mhz stable

should I try multi X9? wich would sound better?