Disabled the onboard LAN and replaced it with a crusty old realtek I had laying around (love that card, all windows versions already have the drivers for it). Warm boot issues all gone. Luckily I havent had an issues with the onboard audio yet since I dont have any spare sound cards laying around.

Currently at:
2900mhz, 2900Ht, with 1.3vcore. Now that my warm boot issues are gone and it isnt so darn painful to overclock, since I can actually tell if its instability or warm boot retardedness, I can get back to work on 3ghz+.