Well yes KTE i am starting to dread my change from the DFI to MSI but i will stick it out. OK i do get my pc to boot.etc with dimms in slots 1 and 2 after using these settings up to trrd as the rest i don't know where to get it.)
Now with Everest it showing only running in single channel? will try your setting.

CAS Latency Time - 5
DRAM RAS# to CAS# Delay - 5
DRAM RAS# Precharge - 5
Precharge Delay (tRAS) - 18
ACT to ACT Delay (tRRD) - 4
Rank Write to Read Delay - 11
Write to Precharge Delay - 14
Refresh to ACT Delay - 42
Read to Precharge Delay - 4
tRD - 8 to 10

Dram Voltage +0.2 to +0.4 (warrantied to +0.55 but we highly recommend active cooling over +0.4 (2.2V)
These Voltages might help with instability
FSB Overvoltage Control +0.1
MCH Overvoltage Control +0.1 to +0.3