so yeah i changed cpu and it still didnt post, i changed my psu. god it was a major PITA, still didnt post, and now the worst news.
before putting the cpu in the p5e3 i tried it in my 680i with my thermaltake psu, and some other supertalent ddr2 ram(2gb), and guess what it didnt post either :S

wtf.... if all my parts got zapped/fried i think i should try and achieve some sort of award. being my 20th computer build, and not one being fried...

I was thinking about taking it to a major chain computer store to be looked at, but then i thought what theyre faces would look like when i put on the service desk a 18inch red cube case with triloop watercooling cooling...
/thinsk to self: i should take my camera :S