OK...the only test I didn't conduct was putting a fan on the NB, I may do that yet but as of now here's the dealo:

A) I ran the Small FFT tests on my cpu (which hardly stresses RAM), it ran fine at 3.0Ghz...after that, it fails when trying to run the second instance. No matter what VCore I up it to or adding FSB/GMch voltage, it fails. I don't know how to explain that. I'm hoping maybe if I cool my NB chip better that will change?

B) I actually did have too much juice going to my RAM, I lowered it down to stock, and was damn close to stable at 3.0Ghz but not quite, so I upped it another .1v and its stable now. (Even though its not running at a rated 800Mhz)

C) I can't even begin to boot if I set the multiplier to 7 and up the FSB to 450 or so.

In conclusion, I fear that the wall I'm hitting is cause of my cpu and/or motherboard. I've still got some room to go up with my RAM so its not the RAM. I've got an AC unit very near to my comp so I fear that the NB isn't over heating either, as I DO NOT have any added GMch voltage. I'll just cross my fingers that Gigabyte will be releasing more BIOS revisions. For now, 3.0 Ghz from 2.13 Ghz will have to do. Scoring 19.5's in Super PI.