I know I spend alot of time here as well:
http://photography-on-the.net/forum/index.php

And yes dslr photography costs WAY more than computers...

here is what I have now:

Bodies: 30D & XTI
Lenses: Canon 50 f/1.8..Canon 100-400L f/4.5-5.6..Sigma 17-70 f/2.8-4.5
Misc: 580EX..Better Beamer..4 & 8gb Ridata 150X CF..Opteka Battery Grips..Kenko 1.4 TC..UV Filters..Lowepro Slingshot..Tripod