Well after I got done being lazy messing with voltages and trying to get it right, I finally decided to individually test each stick at stock settings....turns out I have 1 defective stick, the other 3 memtest all day long without a hitch...I think this stick is a remnant of the Bad Axe 2 eating my ram. This will be the 5th stick fallen victim to the BX2 of this make (6400C3DF). That damn 3rd slot I bet, anyways I will get this sorted out, other than that everything is working good now.

Thanks for the input

EDIT: And I never use AUTO for anything, cept if I knew what the voltage references were supposed to be set at, I would haha and that overvolt control thing in the BIOS, anyways I got some findings on my ram I will post with this board.