I have to disagree on pretty much every point.
The clock crossing operation Intel's chipsets perform is quite well documented at this point. The number of phases is directly linked to the FSB/DRAM ratio, and the delay for each phase is the tRD. The Effect of pull-ins are also well documented. On other boards, enabling them reduces the tRD on a particular phase of the clock crossing procedure, and the performance impact from doing so is directly related to the number of phases changed. If you enable them all, performance is exactly the same as if you have dropped the base tRD a full point. If you enable half of the available pull-ins of each memory channel, the performance is right in the middle of the two tRD notches in question. I've tested this myself on the DFI Blood Iron, and the DFI X48-T2RSB Plus. At 400MHz FSB, each tRD phase is 2.5ns of memory latency. If I'm running tRD 7 on the two boards I mentioned above (at 400MHz FSB) and drop the tRD to 6, OR enable all pull-ins, memory latency drops a full 2-2.5ns, and bandwidth increases by a few hundred MB/s all round, as it should. Furthermore, enabling the pull-ins can also have a significant effect on stability, when they work. If I am already near the limit of stability, enabling any of the pull-ins might cause instability. Enabling them all has the same effect on stability as dropping the tRD a full point, which is not surprising since it has the same effect on performance. This is why, that when tweaking, one, two, or more phases are left with the pull-ins disabled. The entire purpose of allowing tRD phase pull-ins is to allow access to what is essentially a fractional tRD. If tRD 7 is totaly stable, but tRD 6 un-bootable, chances are that you have plenty of room to enable some pull-ins for a very measurable boost in performance, if the pull-ins work correctly on the board in question. If one tRD level is on the verge of stability, enabling all pull-ins except for one can give nearly the performance of the lower tRD level without compromising system stability.
In my, and many other's experiences with other boards, where the pull-ins do work, they work regardless of hardware configuration. I've tried them with more than a dozen different sets of memory, and a half dozen CPU (ranging from E2140s to X3350s), at a huge range of FSB and memory ratio settings. On every board where the tRDs ever behaved as predicted, they always behaved as predicted.
I can only conclude, based on a great deal of first hand testing, and even more second hand research/experimentation, that ASUS has not enabled the tRD phase pull-in setting that they show in their BIOSes. I've tried almost a dozen different BIOSes with this P5Q deluxe, at FSB ranging from 200 to 520, using every memory ratio available, and ASUS' pull-ins have never done anything noticeable, for either performance or stability. Everest, which has the capability of detecting pull-in settings (I've tried it) also shows no change on the P5Q (D). Indeed, the very tRD by phase display in the BIOS settings page itself shows no change.
They don't work, not on the P5Q-Deluxe anyway.
Some articles on Anandtech about tRD, the clock crossing procedure, and pull-ins:
http://www.anandtech.com/mb/showdoc.aspx?i=3129&p=9
http://www.anandtech.com/mb/showdoc.aspx?i=3208&p=5
If you like, I can take some pictures of the phase display in the BIOS of one of my Blood Irons, and run benches with various pull-in setting, to show what working pull-in settings
should do.