I think I may have finally figured out the problem. Today I did some Memtesting, during which time I measured my 3.3V line on the VDIMM mosfet with a good Fluke DMM. Much to my surprise, under heavy load my 3.3V line drops to about 3.1V! That was the reason VTT was dropping when running memtest. (At least it was tracking properly :p:.)
So, to remedy the problem, I am going to do the PSU sense wire mod to the 3.3V line of my PSU to get the voltage a little higher. There may yet be hope.