The 216 233 and 250 dividers dont work. Maybe thats what is confusing you. The dividers that work are 100 133 166 200. If you have a modded bios 150 and 183 will also work.
Use cpu-z to tell you the HTT speed and the memory speed it does it a lot better than a synthetic benchmark will.
so to run 1:1 you set memory divider to 200 then raise the HTT the ram and cpu will scale together. Then if you reach your memory maximum speed before the cpu has hit its limit then you use a divider on the ram.
What I mean about the bios not showing correct readings is. If you set 250HTT 1:1 the bios will show 400 instead of 500.
If you set 183 or 166 divider bios will show 333 if you choose 133 or 150 bios will show 266.
If you set 166 divider but raise the HTT so the memory is really at 200mhz it will still show 333.