long story short....
last month my father fell in line with all the rest of the men in my family and had a heart attack. (they got to him in time and did a double stint implant and he is doing well)
admittedly he had a blockage, high cholesterol and high-ish blood pressure.
he had gotten his Chol. down but it was too late a piece of gunk got loose and got lodges in his artery.
but my grandfather, 2 of his brothers, his sister and his father (my great grand dad) all died from heart failure for one reason or another.
so I will be 41yrs old in a few months so i figure its time to get checked...
i go to my Dr. and explain all the family history and my dad's recent heart attack and tell him i want what ever tests need to be run to ensure i am ok or if not get me on the right track.
My Dr. tells me that my family history doesnt really mean anything with regards to me being at risk. i just about freaked on him.
he asked me if i can exercise and not have any symptoms.. i said "yeah i am fine, but nearly all heart attack victims we hear about are the ones who had no signs such as my dad who just dropped one day without warning. so how can you ask me something like that. if i was having ANY symptoms i woudnt be here i would be at a heart Dr."
he totally blew me off, i dont even remember what he said if anything.
I also told him that for the last 10yrs i have suffered from, at times, extreme panic attacks when i am under emotional stress or faced with physical confrontation.
there was one time in the last 3 months i almost called 911 and my wife as i was dizzy, pain in my left arm, felt faint and i was home alone with my 3yr old.
that was very abnormal because i was fine, it came out of the blue, i was not stressed or anything. and it scared me.
and again he kinda blew me off.
I told him shouldnt i be concerned about the panic attacks and how they are stressing out my heart along with the family history.
he said i should go to therapy about how to control panic attacks (which i can understand, but he blew me off again)
so in the end my good and bad cholesterol are where they should be but my "overall" cholesterol is 60 points high, i think it was around 250-ish and the nurse said they like it to be around 190-ish?
i have never heard of "overall" chol. but i have never had it checked before either.
so i am about to freak on my dr. who in the past has made comments about family history meaning little to my personal health. (cancer BAD on mom's side and heart failure BAD on dad's side and he says,, ehhh i shouldnt worry)
i know i need to seek a 2nd opinion, but what do i do about my Dr..... is there some where i can report him? i mean i feel like this guy doesnt need to be practicing medicine if he doesnt see the OBVIOUS warning signs.
i mean wtf... if i had a heart attack tomorrow and survived i can guarantee you i would go after him for malpractice for not listening to the family history and my own questions and concerns.
what to do...???
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