Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3-4 months and she moved in with me into my parents house because her mom is drunk and stupid everyday and she had no where else to go. Anyway she is really nice and has a great personality. We are currently sharing my room together. My feelings for her aren't as strong as the ones she has for me but I don't know how to go about this.
My parents said she can stay as long as she bought her own food and paid $50 a month for the utilities she used. Here is the bad part. She has become a huge burden to me. All she does is sleep, like today she woke up around 3 p.m, i was up at 7 and I couldn't do anything remotely noisey cause she would complain. I couldnt make my bed until she got up . She always says she sleeps because she doesnt feel to well which is almost everyday. Her stuff is scattered everywhere in my room and when I ask her politely to do something for instance to wash the dishes, clean up her mess and even to do her laundry, I always hear I will do it later and it never gets done. Even when I try to remind her I get scorned because she already knows. I'd like to think of me as a cleanly guy, I enjoy my room being clean and with her stuff here, my mind keeps bugging me but I know I can't do anything about it. She does buy her own food but she never eats it unless she has too, she always eats from my meals. I understand she currently is my girlfriend but she always wakes up and asks whats for breakfast, whats for dinner and always complains to me she is hungry and makes me make her food. I eat clean, so I always prepare meals for myself and the cost of food is making it worse. It is like trying to move a mountain to get her to cook. It feels like I have to not only feed myself but another person as well and look after her...keep in mind im only 21 going into my last year of college. I can't look out for myself and her.
She gets stressed really easily and I really want to call it quits and send her back to her moms house but I need to know how to approach this without her going crazy. Her mom said if she wants to come back she can at anytime. Any ideas?
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