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    Bad day for my wife (long post)

    Well today was what I would call a very bad day. My wife left this morning to go grocery shopping and to run a few errands. I receive a cell phone call from at approx. 10:20am crying telling me that she has been in a bad wreck. Some A$$hat did not stop at a red light and hit her from behind, twice!

    She was on a forty-five mile an hour road and was coming to a stop at a red light in the middle lane when this jerk hit her from behind pushing her into a Chrysler Pacifica which she clipped on the left rear corner. She went into the left lane (four lane divided highway) and after going about forty feet he hit her again driving her into the left turn lane and causing her to hit a Ford Thunderbird in the drivers door at the door/fender.

    Now this guy was driving a Land Rover Discovery and told the officer he was going approx thirty-five miles an hour. The police and the tow truck driver estimate his speed to be in excess of fifty miles an hour to do this much damage. He also told the Officer that he did not know what happened and he was talking to his passenger at the time of the wreck.

    So I arrive on the scene twenty-five minutes after the wreck to see this carnage of four vehicles and my 2001 Toyota Avalon XLS in a mangled mess and my wife in the ambulance strapped to a board with her head immobilized to be taken to a trauma center.

    A little history on the car. This is the nicest car that we have ever owned, when my daughter was born we made the decision for her to quit her job as a Rehab Teacher for the Blind and stay home with my daughter until she went to school. This decision put us between a rock and a hard place for many years and we still have never caught up but I would do the same thing again. My daughter is a very polite, well behaved, secure young woman and her mom being there made the difference. We bought this car in June and it was a one owner garage kept with 63,000 miles and looked like it just rolled off the assembly line. It has every bell and whistle and the older lady that owned it didn't even crease the leather seats from her light weight. This car was also a Certified Pre-Owned Toyota and really impressed me. There wasn't even corrosion on the wire terminal where the negative wire from the battery is attached to the motor casing. my wife searched for six months to find this car and she really loved it.

    So they took my wife to the trauma center for multiple x-rays as my wife has some fused vertebrae in her neck/back. Thank God all the x-rays came back good but she is pretty banged up and is in a lot of pain but she is alive and that is all that matters. Cars can be replaced but with wife/friend of twenty-seven years can not.

    So here are a couple of pictures of what the car looks like now...





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    My friend, my heart goes out to you and I think I speak for all of us that we're just happy that she's ok.
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    Glad to hear your wife was not seriously injured. The police should cite the other person for reckless driving.
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    Wow, that is really too bad that this happened to you guys man. It looks like it was a hard hit. I hope you get good insurance money for the car... is it totaled? And I really hope your wife turns out to be okay...
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    Quote Originally Posted by sierra_bound View Post
    Glad to hear your wife was not seriously injured. The police should cite the other person for reckless driving.
    Thank you guys, I will pass on your well wishes to my wife. The driver WAS charged with reckless driving. And yes the car is totaled.
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    Dang Sig!

    Very glad to hear the wife is OK.

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    As I have a fuse spine myself I can relate to her pain, though can't imagine to have another accident only compounds the psychological aspect even more.

    I can say, that yes I feel her pain and worry.
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    I see a lot of drivers like that on the roads nowadays. They're either talking on their cell phones or reaching over to find something on the passenger side. I hope his insurance company nails him with much higher rates.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SiGfever View Post
    Thank you guys, I will pass on your well wishes to my wife. The driver WAS charged with reckless driving. And yes the car is totaled.
    As long as he was cited at the scene you and your insurance company should have no issues.
    As to back injuries, had 2 disks and 2 vertabrae removed in 1971.
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    Wow dude! Im really glad she's ok I hope shes back up & kickn you in the a$$ soon.
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    Thank goodness she wasn't seriously hurt! I hope she feels better soon.

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    wow so sad to hear about the car glad the wife is ok treat her like a queen while she in pain
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    DAMN sig. I'm glad shes ok! Thats nuts! I'm speechless!
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    I just saw the top pic before I read anything or scrolled down and thought "damn, my brother totaled my parents van two days ago and it looks worse than that" but then I started reading...

    Damn lucky there were not injuries!!


    On side note my brother is fine as well so enough OT

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    I am sorry to hear this. The driver must have been going quite fast (actually its the relative speed difference that matters) for this kind of damage to happen.

    I hope she recovers fast.

    However, one thing struck my head in your post. Normally, I have read a couple of other threads on XS (real life incidents, etc.) 2-3 times I have had it seen it being explicitly mentioned that the people were "blacks homeboys", "black", etc. I am happy you didn't bring the "color" of the people involved into question here. Now don't attack me for expressing my views :P, for I am neither black, nor american.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KiD0M4N View Post
    I am sorry to hear this. The driver must have been going quite fast (actually its the relative speed difference that matters) for this kind of damage to happen.

    I hope she recovers fast.

    However, one thing struck my head in your post. Normally, I have read a couple of other threads on XS (real life incidents, etc.) 2-3 times I have had it seen it being explicitly mentioned that the people were "blacks homeboys", "black", etc. I am happy you didn't bring the "color" of the people involved into question here. Now don't attack me for expressing my views :P, for I am neither black, nor american.
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    Glad she's is ok, cars can be replaced, people can't. hearing about accidents like this makes me slightly less excited about getting my license soon.


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    No way he was going only 35 and caused that much damage
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    dude, im sorry you lost your car, but happy your wife is ok. i know kinda how you feel, i almost lost mine this pass monday, was on my way to work and was about to get onto i-40 and the person in front of me had some a$$hat pull in front of him and he had to stop fast. i saw him stop and i hit my breaks, well because of a early morning rain storm, roads where slicker than $hit and well, my slide into the back of his Dodge 1500 truck, no damage was done to his, but mine, well it wasn't that lucky. it took some damage too the grill and hood. was able to straighten it out a bit, but the hood is still bowed a little still.

    it seems this past week hasn't been good for alot of people, just yesterday morning was a bad morning for a lady here in NC. she was driving and flipped her suv and flipped head-on into a oncoming semi and was killed.

    but again, glad your wife is ok. and your right, cars can be replaced easily, but our loved ones cant.
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    glad to hear she is alright, she will be much sorer tommorow. just remember that avalon gave it's life to protect your wife... it was built to crumple the way it did to absorb the energy.
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    thats terrible news. idiot driver

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    Holy Sh**, when i saw the images, i thought that ass hole was going for 60+. Hope your wife feels better.
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    I am happy she is ok. If there is anything we can do please let us know.

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