I realize EMC, the Vref trace showed no huge droop, my point is the datasheet calls for the voltage divider to consist of 100K/100K resistors and for them to NOT be used for other purposes at the same time.
The trick DFI implemented to use a simple divider for Vref generation and then "hey, lets save $.02" using this ALSO as the voltage divider for the Vtt generation is a flawed decision.
I believe the 9173 is amplifying spikes on Vref at the actual divider junction....not smoothed by the caps on Vref near the DIMMs... and the Vref droop is a SUB-HARMONIC of the actual spike, so you need to be looking at a much higher freq. noise spike on Vref directly AT THE JUNCTION of the resistors. That noise spike is not making it over to where you were measuring Vref and was at a higher freq.
Point is, by altering the design to have a 200K pot take the place of the voltage divider input to the 9173....set to 50% point, equivalent to 100K/100K.... which would also let us dial in any desired Vtt "bias" above/below Vmem/2..., and then removing the 2 10ohm resistors. Tie one end of the pot to Vmem, the other end to GND, and the middle pin to the REF input of the 9173. With the REF pin on the 9173 pulled in the air, the Vtt output of the 9173 can be shorted to the REF PAD on the PCboard right next to the Vtt pin of the 9173. This would then have the 9173 drive BOTH Vref and Vtt.
Point being, there will be NO DROOP any longer, Vref wont be subject to the noise/droop of the Vtt line as there will no longer BE ANY noise.
A couple caps should also be added to this Vtt/Vref shorted junction ath the 9173, a 560pf, and a .1uf.
I know the design tweak they made to the 9173 circuit was cute, and saved some $$ and seemed like a stoke of genious, but it is flawed and causing this Vtt droop issue. The 9173 circuit needs to be redesigned BACK to what it should be as correctly instructed in the 9173 datasheet.
Vref doesnt take ALOT of current, it wont over stress the 9173, but it is enough current that there are instantaneous voltage spikes at the 10/10 divider due to current being drawn through the 10ohm resistors and the parasitic inductance the resistors possess. I know you weren't "seeing" it on Vref as measured, but trust me, it is there at a higher freq, and the 9173 is AMPLIFYING it (it being the noise spikes) and so the result coming out of the 9173 on Vtt output is considerably higher than the input goiong into the "ref" sinput of the 9173.
I know you tried a bunch of changes, but try EXACTLY what I suggest here and I'll bet the problem vanishes. Ill go buy another MBoard and try it myself as well.....great like I wanted another motherboard laying around here....I wanted to spend my next MB $ on an integrated video Grouper.