I tried different settings and when Trp is set to 3, memtest passes at stockspeeds. So 200Mhz at 2-2-3-8 @ 3.2V is memtest stable.
210 with same settings is also stable, but 220 fails. I cannot get 220 stable now, even with more volts.
Btw where is the vdimm measuring point on this board? I think the bios is incorrectly reporting the vdimm.