You have made quite nice survey :D Thank you for offering help to test, indeed I have something in my mind and I will ask later later :) Do you have a capacitance measuring capability on your multimeter ?
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I wrote soooo long story that it take time to think..
I have tested little bit with 'FastWrite' and it does not solve the problem - but it propably have some impact to BS-feature.
I think that it is possible to ping (never tested) the computer after BS. As I know, BS kills only the graphic card and at least for me the CPU is still doing something. That could also explain the fan behaviour (?)
Settings 'performance 3d' and 'low power 3d' I have never tested, but the explanation you gave make sense: the driver forces the card 'togging' between those states during e.g. 3dmark2003. And toggling between different states can cause anything..
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I was wondering about freezes you mentioned and found following thread:
http://www.nvnews.net/vbulletin/show...9&page=6&pp=15
.. there was told that main memery setting Dual Channel Mode vs. Single Channel Mode has been reported to cause freezes with 6800-cards. Do you have 'Dual Channel Mode'-memories ?